{"id":1053,"date":"2021-01-19T12:20:57","date_gmt":"2021-01-19T12:20:57","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/gerald-hornsby.com\/blog\/?p=1053"},"modified":"2021-01-19T12:23:08","modified_gmt":"2021-01-19T12:23:08","slug":"indirect-verbal-communications","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/gerald-hornsby.com\/blog\/2021\/01\/19\/indirect-verbal-communications\/","title":{"rendered":"Indirect Verbal  Communications"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>What\u2019s that, you ask?&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>It\u2019s the way that communicators can use non-explicit words and phrases to convey information they don\u2019t want to be held to account over at a later date.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>That was a big sentence.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<!--more-->\n\n\n\n<p>Let\u2019s pick an example shall we? Think about the riot in the Capitol building on January 6th. If you\u2019ve been living under a rock (and, to some extent, who could blame you if you have?) President Donald Trump attended some rally or other in Washington, and after his (and other people\u2019s) speeches, a few thousand people marched \u2018down the road\u2019 to the Capitol building where they were trying to complete the final stage in the inordinately long process of confirming a new President of the country. Once there, they broke in and rampaged around the hallowed halls of the centre of American democracy,<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Cue much soul-searching and hand-wringing. \u201cHow could this happen?\u201d they asked, with their innocent little faces looking amongst each other. \u201cI did nothing wrong,\u201d said the President. And indeed, when we later examine his speech <em>on that day<\/em>, nowhere did he <em>specifically<\/em> tell the crowd to cause trouble. In fact, he specifically told them to behave and protest legally. Were they listening? No, they were not. And why not?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Because they\u2019d been fed a diet of indirect verbal communications for years. Literally.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>There are too many examples to quote here. But what Trump did was speak and Tweet in a very simple language. He spoke to the fears of ordinary people. He supported police officers and told them it was okay to treat prisoners roughly.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>If you want to see more examples of his aggressive language, read the following article.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/abcnews.go.com\/Politics\/back-trump-comments-perceived-encouraging-violence\/story?id=48415766\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">https:\/\/abcnews.go.com\/Politics\/back-trump-comments-perceived-encouraging-violence\/story?id=48415766<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Here in the UK, the pro-Leave party has called on nostalgic and militaristic language to appeal to a core base. We\u2019re fighting for our rights, the EU is painted as the enemy across the water, we\u2019re Taking Back Control which had been taken from us by an unelected bureaucracy.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.theguardian.com\/politics\/video\/2019\/sep\/30\/should-i-stick-to-my-guns-johnson-jokes-about-aggressive-brexit-language-video\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">https:\/\/www.theguardian.com\/politics\/video\/2019\/sep\/30<\/a><a href=\"https:\/\/www.theguardian.com\/politics\/video\/2019\/sep\/30\/should-i-stick-to-my-guns-johnson-jokes-about-aggressive-brexit-language-video\">\/should-i-stick-to-my-guns-johnson-jokes-about-aggressive-brexit-language-video<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>What does this mean for authors? It\u2019s the verbal equivalent of \u2018show not tell\u2019, one of the writing mantras. There are some great examples here <a href=\"https:\/\/blog.reedsy.com\/show-dont-tell\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">https:\/\/blog.reedsy.com\/show-dont-tell\/<\/a> (you can find others, too), and that page also includes dialogue show and tell, talking about the rhythms of speech, short and punchy sentences, and so on.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>But there is a deeper idea, too.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The idea that you can create an impression of the character through the way that they speak and the non-specific wording they use.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Here\u2019s an example &#8211; take the phrase \u201cI think you need to leave the room right now.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>It\u2019s a fairly innocuous phrase. Is there a deeper undercurrent to it?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>How about this:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-black-color has-text-color\">\u201cI can\u2019t believe you did this again. After I\u2019ve told you and told you until I\u2019m blue in the face. What more can I do? I CAN\u2019T BELIEVE WHAT YOU\u2019VE DONE! I AM SO ANGRY WITH YOU!\u201d She paused, breathing hard. \u201c<strong>I think you need to leave the room right now.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Or:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>She looked at her watch. \u201cYou\u2019re going to be late. You know what Gavin is like when people are late, and I\u2019d hate to see you get into trouble over this. I know you want to finish this for me, and that\u2019s really lovely.\u201d She looked at her watch again. \u201c<strong>I think you need to leave the room right now.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>So, two probably not-very-good examples, but you can see how the same words can mean two different things based on what has gone on before.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-align-center has-medium-font-size\"><strong>Words matter, of course they do, but context matters, too.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator has-text-color has-background has-vivid-cyan-blue-background-color has-vivid-cyan-blue-color is-style-dots\"\/>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-vivid-cyan-blue-color has-text-color\" style=\"font-size:14px\"><strong>Please click the button below to follow this blog!<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<a class=\"wordpress-follow-button\" href=\"http:\/\/gerald-hornsby.com\/blog\" data-blog=\"http:\/\/gerald-hornsby.com\/blog\" data-lang=\"en\" data-show-follower-count=\"true\">Follow Gerald&#8217;s Blog on WordPress.com<\/a>\n<script type=\"text\/javascript\">(function(d){var f = d.getElementsByTagName('SCRIPT')[0], p = d.createElement('SCRIPT');p.type = 'text\/javascript';p.async = true;p.src = '\/\/widgets.wp.com\/platform.js';f.parentNode.insertBefore(p,f);}(document));<\/script>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>What\u2019s that, you ask?&nbsp; It\u2019s the way that communicators can use non-explicit words and phrases to convey information they don\u2019t want to be held to account over at a later date. 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